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Prioritizing Self-Care: Why Women, Especially Women of Color, Deserve to Rest

As women, we often find ourselves juggling multiple roles and responsibilities, striving to be everything to everyone. The demands of work, family, and community can be overwhelming, leaving little time or energy for ourselves. This struggle is even more pronounced for women of color, who face unique challenges and pressures. Prioritizing self-care can seem like an impossible luxury, but it is a necessity we must embrace. Our upcoming Rest Retreat is designed to help you do just that—to take a step back, breathe, and truly focus on your well-being.

Why Is It So Hard to Prioritize Ourselves?

  1. Societal Expectations

  • Society often imposes unrealistic expectations on women, expecting us to be caregivers, nurturers, and selfless beings. From a young age, many of us are conditioned to put others' needs before our own, which can make self-care feel selfish or indulgent.

  1. Cultural Pressures

  • Cultural norms and traditions can reinforce the notion that women should prioritize family and community over themselves. For women of color, these cultural pressures can be even more intense, with expectations to uphold cultural values and support extended family networks.

  1. Internalized Guilt

  • The pervasive guilt that comes with taking time for ourselves is a major barrier. We may feel that by focusing on our own needs, we are neglecting our duties or being less of a good partner, mother, or friend. This guilt can be paralyzing, preventing us from seeking the rest and care we need.

  1. Overwhelm and Burnout

  • The constant hustle and multitasking lead to chronic stress and burnout. When we're running on empty, finding the energy to prioritize self-care can seem impossible. It's a vicious cycle: the more overwhelmed we feel, the less likely we are to take the time for ourselves.

  1. Lack of Resources and Access

  • Many women, particularly women of color, face economic and systemic barriers that limit access to self-care resources. Financial constraints, limited access to wellness services, and lack of supportive networks can make self-care feel out of reach.

Overcoming the Hesitancy to Put Yourself First

  1. Reframe Self-Care as Essential

  • Self-care is not a luxury; it is a fundamental necessity. Reframing self-care as essential to your well-being and ability to care for others can help alleviate feelings of guilt. Remember, you cannot pour from an empty cup.

  1. Set Boundaries

  • Learning to say no and setting boundaries is crucial. By protecting your time and energy, you can create space for self-care. Boundaries allow you to focus on what truly matters and prioritize your own needs.

  1. Seek Support and Community

  • Finding a supportive community that understands your struggles can be incredibly empowering. Surround yourself with people who encourage and uplift you. Our Rest Retreat provides a nurturing community where you can share your experiences and find solidarity.

  1. Start Small and Be Consistent

  • Incorporating self-care into your routine doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Start with small, consistent practices that bring you joy and relaxation. Whether it’s a daily meditation, a short walk, or a few minutes of journaling, these small steps can make a big difference.

  1. Invest in Yourself

  • Recognize that investing in your well-being is a worthwhile endeavor. Whether it’s time, money, or energy, the resources you allocate to self-care are investments in your health, happiness, and longevity. Our Rest Retreat is an opportunity to invest in yourself, providing a structured environment to focus on your needs.

Why Our Rest Retreat Is Necessary for You

Our Rest Retreat is specifically designed to address these challenges and provide a safe, supportive space for women, particularly women of color, to prioritize themselves. Here’s what you can expect:

  • Holistic Approach: Explore the seven areas of rest and sacred self-care, encompassing physical, mental, emotional, social, sensory, creative, and spiritual well-being.

  • Empowering Community: Connect with a community of like-minded women who understand and share your experiences. Together, we will build each other up and foster a sense of belonging and support.

  • Expert Guidance: Benefit from the expertise of facilitators who will guide you through restorative practices, mindfulness, and self-care strategies tailored to your unique needs.

  • Tranquil Setting: Immerse yourself in the serene environment of the Elohee Retreat in Georgia, a perfect backdrop for rest and rejuvenation.


It’s time to break free from the societal and cultural pressures that keep us from prioritizing our well-being. You deserve to rest, recharge, and care for yourself without guilt. Our Rest Retreat is not just a getaway; it’s a commitment to yourself, an acknowledgment that your health and happiness matter. Join us on this transformative journey and reclaim your right to rest and self-care. You are worth it.



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